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Favorite“喜欢”系列
What's your favorite season? Here's a question that works well with the "it's always easy to talk about the weather" concept. Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions, and you have a conversation.
你喜欢的季节是哪一个ⅲⅳⅴⅵⅶⅷⅸⅹⒶⒷⒸⒹ?这个问题验证了那句“如果不知道说什么☾☽❄☃,问天气总是没错的㈠㈡㈢㈣㈤㈥㈦。” 在这之后再问现在的天气状况♀☿☼☀☁☂☄,对话就更自然⓱⓲⓳⓴⓵⓶⓷⓸⓹⓺⓻⓼⓽⓾、不无聊啦웃유ღ♋♂。
What's your favorite food/cuisine? Everyone eats, making this an icebreaker that works anywhere, anytime.
你喜欢的食物是什么✺ϟ☇♤♧♡♢♠♣♥?民以食为天❣❦❧♡۵,这个问题百试不灵☧☬☸✡♁✙♆。,、':∶;。
What's your favorite drink? / What's your poison? A wonderfully basic question, asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering.
你喜欢的饮料是什么ⒺⒻⒼⒽⒾⒿⓀⓁⓂⓃⓄⓅⓆⓇⓈⓉ?绝妙的常规问题☾☽❄☃。任何聚会上问这个问题总不会错ⒺⒻⒼⒽⒾⒿⓀⓁⓂⓃⓄⓅⓆⓇⓈⓉ。
Where's your favorite place to hang out in town? Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening. And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants, bars, and shops.
镇上喜欢的去处♦☜☞☝✍☚☛☟✌✽✾✿❁❃?这又是一个有趣而不私人的开场问题⒃⒄⒅⒆⒇⒈⒉⒊⒋⒌⒍⒎⒏⒐⒑⒒⒓。接着就可以讨论喜欢的餐厅㊀㊁㊂㊃㊄㊅㊆㊇㊈㊉,酒吧和商店❣❦❧♡۵。
Do you have a favorite local restaurant? This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts, which puts everyone at ease.
你有喜欢的餐厅吗☈⊙☉℃℉❅?这个问题能让人们谈论起日常休闲的地方⒥⒦⒧⒨⒩⒪⒫⒬⒭⒮⒯⒰⒱⒲⒳⒴⒵❆❇❈❉❊†☨✞✝☥☦☓☩☯,使大家放松㊀㊁㊂㊃㊄㊅㊆㊇㊈㊉。
Deeper Talks“深聊”系列
What's your dream job? Even at a corporate gathering, inquiring about someone's dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started.
你理想的职业是什么✵✶✷✸✹✺✻✼❄❅?即使是在公司聚会上❻❼❽❾❿⓫⓬⓭⓮⓯⓰,问理想职业也是开始对话的一种有效方式☾☽❄☃。
Tell me about something that made you laugh this week. Everyone loves a good laugh! Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile.
告诉我这星期让你开心的事情吧㈠㈡㈢㈣㈤㈥㈦。人人都爱笑♀☿☼☀☁☂☄!讨论点有趣的事能让人开怀一笑❻❼❽❾❿⓫⓬⓭⓮⓯⓰。
If you could live/go anywhere in the world, where would it be? Not everyone gets to travel tons, making this a fun question for anyone.
如果你可以住在世界上任何一个地方⑰⑱⑲⑳⓪⓿❶❷❸❹❺,你会住在哪웃유ღ♋♂?不是每个人都有机会到处旅行①②③④⑤⑥⑦⑧⑨⑩⑪⑫⑬⑭⑮⑯,这个问题能让大家都开心起来❻❼❽❾❿⓫⓬⓭⓮⓯⓰。
What countries have you traveled to? / Where have you been in Europe? Even if you haven't traveled the world, asking if others have encourages them to share memories.
你去过哪些国家☈⊙☉℃℉❅?即使你没有出去旅游过⒃⒄⒅⒆⒇⒈⒉⒊⒋⒌⒍⒎⒏⒐⒑⒒⒓,问问别人可以让他们分享回忆㊀㊁㊂㊃㊄㊅㊆㊇㊈㊉。
What's the craziest thing you've ever done? For those who are ready to make a bold first impression, this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation.
你做过的疯狂的事是什么☈⊙☉℃℉❅?如果你想让人印象深刻的话♦☜☞☝✍☚☛☟✌✽✾✿❁❃,这是一个能够吸引注意而且制造乐趣的话题⒔⒕⒖⒗⒘⒙⒚⒛ⅠⅡⅢⅣⅤⅥⅦⅧⅨⅩⅪⅫⅰⅱ。
Life“生活”系列
Where did you grow up? This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past, which often puts others at ease.
你是在哪长大的ⒺⒻⒼⒽⒾⒿⓀⓁⓂⓃⓄⓅⓆⓇⓈⓉ?这是非常好的一句开场白✺ϟ☇♤♧♡♢♠♣♥,可以让对方谈论起过去㈠㈡㈢㈣㈤㈥㈦,这样对话双方会比较轻松①②③④⑤⑥⑦⑧⑨⑩⑪⑫⑬⑭⑮⑯。
Do you have any pets? Are you a dog person or a cat person? People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start.
你养宠物吗ⓚⓛⓜⓝⓞⓟⓠⓡⓢ?人们都喜欢宠物⓱⓲⓳⓴⓵⓶⓷⓸⓹⓺⓻⓼⓽⓾,问起他们的宠物能让对话进行下去☾☽❄☃。即使对方没有宠物❻❼❽❾❿⓫⓬⓭⓮⓯⓰,这也不失为一个好的开场白✺ϟ☇♤♧♡♢♠♣♥。
What's the first thing you do after work? Do you kick off your shoes? Hit the gym? Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed.
这个问题显得有点太具体和Personal,是想发展亲密关系会聊的问题①②③④⑤⑥⑦⑧⑨⑩⑪⑫⑬⑭⑮⑯,general一点的❻❼❽❾❿⓫⓬⓭⓮⓯⓰,我会问这些:What do you do for fun? How do you relax yourself after a long day?
下班后做的一件事是什么㊀㊁㊂㊃㊄㊅㊆㊇㊈㊉?是踢掉鞋子ⅲⅳⅴⅵⅶⅷⅸⅹⒶⒷⒸⒹ?去健身⒥⒦⒧⒨⒩⒪⒫⒬⒭⒮⒯⒰⒱⒲⒳⒴⒵❆❇❈❉❊†☨✞✝☥☦☓☩☯?问人们如何放松能让他们感到愉快ⓊⓋⓌⓍⓎⓏⓐⓑⓒⓓⓔⓕⓖⓗⓘⓙ。
Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend? 这个问题显得有压力ⓣⓤⓥⓦⓧⓨⓩ,人家未必有大计划⒥⒦⒧⒨⒩⒪⒫⒬⒭⒮⒯⒰⒱⒲⒳⒴⒵❆❇❈❉❊†☨✞✝☥☦☓☩☯,问题不能太限定✵✶✷✸✹✺✻✼❄❅,建议这么问:
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Do you like to cook? Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing.
你喜欢烹饪吗웃유ღ♋♂?问问对方喜欢的菜肴❣❦❧♡۵,烹饪方面的经历总能引起有趣的话题ⓊⓋⓌⓍⓎⓏⓐⓑⓒⓓⓔⓕⓖⓗⓘⓙ。
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